This is a book meant for use amongst small groups to get people to know each other better. I found the questions at the end of each section to be really good, but that's about it.

What do you miss about childhood?
What did you want to be when you grew up? Why?
What's one of the hardest things you've had to ask forgiveness for?
Describe your family.
If you could change one thing about your family, what would it be?
What is something you regret?
Describe a time when you felt completely safe.
Describe a time when you felt loved.
How has your image changed over the years?

Present

Favorite book
Most influential person in your life and why
What you look for in a friend
Most significant relationship
Hidden talent
Favorite subject in school
Likes
Dislikes
Ideal friend
Something you wish you could do
Something you'd change about yourself
Name one area in which you need to grow up.
Name something you've learned about yourself recently.
Name one area in which you want to be like your parents.
What would you like the courage to do?
What one thing do you think you need the most?
What's the thing you worry about the most?
If you could ask God one question, what would it be?
Do you have relationships where you can be completely honest?
What are some of the things that make you feel secure?
Who do you admire? Why?
What's your favorite way to spend time with friends?
How do you like to spend time with people? In a group? One on one?
What's something you do to relax?
If you had to describe yourself with one word, what word would you choose?
What would a perfect day for you be?
What are you most proud of?
Do you have high or low self esteem?
In my wildest dreams I'd

• Learn
  
• Buy
  
• Visit
  
• Forgive
  
• Give up
  
• Spend less time
  
• Spend more time
  
• Forget
  
• Remember

Future

Do you ever feel like you're waiting for life to begin?
Where do you want to be in five years?
How old do you usually feel? Why?
What is something you'd like to do differently from your parents?
If money were no issue, what would you do?
What's something about the future that scares you?
In the Bible, God told King Solomon he could have anything he asked for. Solomon chose wisdom. What would you ask for?
What kind of person do you want to become in the future?
When you get to the end of your life, how do you want to be remembered?

Values

How would you define/what are your thoughts on

• Racism
  
• Tolerance
  
• Abortion
  
• Welfare
  
• America
  
• Religion
  
• Work
  
• Freedom
  
• Truth
  
• Success
  
• Love
  
• Socialism
  
• Atheism
  
• Materialism
  
• Peace
  
• Respect
  
• War
  
• Communism

Is trust something that comes easily to you?
What opinions do you hold that seem to be unpopular with your friends?

Faith

What do you think of when you hear the word…

• God
  
• Jesus
  
• People
  
• Heaven
  
• Church
  
• Angels
  
• Goodness
  
• Prayer
  
• Faith
  
• Spirituality
  
• Hope
  
• Love
  
• Holiness
  
• Mercy
  
• Character
• The Bible
  

What was your experience of religion when you were growing up? How did it affect you?
Have you ever been really mad at God? Why?
Do the people you know who profess to be very devoted to God make it seem attractive or unattractive? Why?
What is something that you pray for often?

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